Ideas of how this custody case may turn out ?

You might want to speak to counsel, to see what options you have.

What are the chances I will be granted sole custody of my son?

Its hard to tell, but courts are hesitant to preclude a child from seeing their parent. I think you should speak to an attorney for more guidance.

My child support ends when my children reach the age of 21 in New York state. will Georgia honor that order?

It should be. Please speak to counsel in GA.

You need to speak to local counsel asap, and get an inperson consult. You have a few options including filing for custody in NYS or leaving without...

Can I file as an abuse victim, though the physical abuse happened outside of the US?

Its not clear who was married first and its not clear where you live and where he lives. Please contact an attorney asap for help.

What rights do I have as a mother who’s ex husband is moving out of state and wants a different visitation schedule?

Its unclear. I suggest you have an attorney review your agreement or current order, and then you two can work on a plan of action going forward.

Can IDV court in NYS extend a criminal order of protection without request of victim or knowledge of victim

Yes Yes Yes. Once the cops are involved its no longer in the victims hand.

Change of circumstances

In order for a change in circumstances to be shown, some proof needs to be presented, it can be in evidence, and testimony can be one form. Please...

Why not. Why shouldn't someone else pick up your kid. You need to file for child support.

i have and order in ny she has residential i have visit and childs records what r the penalties if she moves out of state ?

Hopefully she moved less than 6 months ago, otherwise NYS will not retain jurisdiction. If NYS still has jurisdiction, then you need to file a...