The state represents me for child support, they have all the fathers info, does it mean they have access to how much he makes?

Maybe he had a heart attack. Let the state proceed.

Can my 17 y/o legally decide to stay with me without having to going through court proceedings in NYC?

Not really, but its unlikely a court will force a 17 year old to do anything they dont want to do.

In NY, married, rent home in woods without lease. Left, dom.viol. Is it legal for him to have landlord change locks 14 days late

No its not legal. You need to go to court with an attorney asap and proceed accordingly so you can get your stuff.

As counsel said, it takes about 24 hours for him to be released.

Can i get a adjournment complensation of dismissal ?

You should not be posting on here confessing your actions. You need to hire defense counsel immediately.

How do I make my ex stop unwanted overtures for reconciliation?

You may want to have your attorney send him a stern message to knock it off, or consult with another attorney who will do the same.

HHow can I get an order of protection modified and how can I file a complaint against the ada?

You need to speak to the ADA, maybe you can obtain counsel and your attorney will have better luck. Filing a complaint will not help you.

My ex lied to court and got custody of my daughter saying I am mentally ill. My ex was abusive on all levels in my marriage.

Did you have an attorney? If so please speak to your attorney and find out why this is happening and what your next steps can be. If not, you...

What documents should I collect from my employer that can be helpful in family court before loosing a job?

He needs to speak to an attorney asap to discuss how he needs to proceed with a downward modification on his child support. It must be done the...

Supplemental order?

It can be that day, or can take weeks or months. Nobody can tell a judge what to do.