No appearance means what is says, everything will be decided on the papers.

Could the court make the respondant show their w2 forms for child support?

As stated, you may have been able to request it for a hearing if done properly.

How/what do I need to file to vacate a current child support order?

Its unclear that you could not be heard without an attorney. I suggest that you contact legal aid or a law school and maybe someone can help you.

My son's father has no contact with him. He is forced to pay child support. Is there a way to terminate his rights?

It is very difficult to do what you accomplish. If he has nothing to do with the kid, why stir things up?

I wanna relocate with my son basically I wanna move home to CT but my kids father won't let me he says I have to prove to him I

If dad does not consent, then you will need to file a relocation petition with the court, and have it approved. They are normally difficult cases...

How do I change my son's last name ?

It will be difficult to change his name at this juncture.

Honestly, you need to hire an attorney to get things done. Consider it an investment.

I have an rfid in my head and so do my two children?

Please seek medical assistaince asap. They (you know who "they" are) will be able to assist you.

Am I entitled to some part of my husband's pension or any accounts in case he dies before being divorced? He's a postal employee

It appears that part of his pension would be considered a marital asset, and your would be entitled to your equitable share. However, to your own...

In Florida ?

You need to speak to an attorney in FL immidiately.