You need to speak with your attorney and discuss your entire situation and put together a comprehensive game plan to stop this.

ACS served me a document that states that I am a subject of an investigation. Can I sue?

Hire counsel, clear your name................

How can I know if i am still married or if i am already divorced? Can we be divorced for abandonment even It Was not my fault?

Why do you think you are divorced? Something is missing from the fact pattern.

Inheritance Home?

No. You really need to speak to an attorney to discuss what your options are. The home sounds like it is separate property and is hers.

How do I go about submitting a parenting plan to the court when divorce was granted on Inquest?

Something is missing here. It sounds like you have a preexisting order. You really need to settle this the right way, or you will be in court for a...

Nobody knows the details in your case. You need to speak with an attorney to discuss the totality of your case. Please do so.

Process server says she served me in person at my mothers home, which i do not reside at.

Your attorney should have requested a Traverse Hearing. Please obtain counsel asap.

When is the earliest that one of us can file for divorce if we signed a separation agreement in May?

As counsel said, you can file at any time. But please speak with an attorney to discuss your options. What happened to the attorney that drafted...

What are the repercussions if I don't go to a child custody court date?

Never miss a court date. In your case it might have a bad result with regard to child support.

My divorce Stipulation states through children’s respective emancipation I give each child reasonable allowance?

I don't know if this provision would hold up in court. You may want to speak to an attorney.