Will NJ court favor a more equal holiday schedule between me and my ex , especially now that I have a daughter

You need to review your Order and/or agreement to see what is going on. I strongly suggest you consult with an attorney to see what your options...

How do I get a no contact order lifted and will he then be able to move back to his/our apartment?

Once you get the police involved your control of the situation is over. Its all up to the DA's office and the Judge. I suggest your attorney speak...

It really depends on the probation officer. If its a condition, then it may be an offense.

If divorce is done in one state but custody is done in another. Which state had jurisdiction for child support?

Sounds like it should be the new state.

Can I move out of New York to New Jersey with my daughters, without a court order in place?

If you move without petioning the Court you run the risk of dad filing a motion and dragging you and the kids back to NY. I strongly suggest you...

If have sol legal custody of my children can I move out of state even if the other spouse has a strict visitation schedule?

You need to motion the court for permission to move with the children. If you do not do that then you run the risk that dad will file a peittion...

Is there an easier way to change a court ordered counseling place that is closer without going to court before the judge again?

Someone would have to review the court order to see what can be done.

Can I file for custody of my 16 year old in my own city?

Venue is proper in the area where the child lives, not comes for a visit.

You probably need to speak to your attorney if the police have been involved. Someone would have to review your agreement and consult with you to...

How do I get a change of venue from Nj to N.C. (mecklenburg county) for a family court case?

If the case started in NJ, and is still active, the court in NJ may decide to hold on to it. If its a new case, and the child has lived in NC for...