As a father can I ask to be placed on child support? we have an amicable agreement. I'm being threatened with court periodically

You could, but I strongly recommend you speak to counsel before you do this. There seems to me lots of other issues that you seem to have, that...

My kids mom wants to stop child against me I owe about 12,000 in arrears Can she have it waived?

If she agreed to it on the record in court, it can be waived.

You can ask the Judge but the conduct needs to be egregious, and even then it happens rarely.

How long can I get my Acs case closed?

ACS is like a bad disease. It doesn't let go. You need to comply with them, and get them out of your life.

Can a mother file for another child,while the first child she had filed for is on welfare?

Its unclear as to what you are asking, but a parent is permitted to file for welfare for additional children.

When u have a warrant for child support how do i get it lifted?

You need to appear in court and take care of the open warrant.

How do I get my brothers to give me my money that is rightfully owed to me?

You need to retain counsel in Florida to pursue this action for you, and possibly in the DR as well.

Do I consider my live in boyfriend as part of my household on my financial disclosure for child support?

You need someone to review your disclosure statement. It is possible the Support Magistrate may impute income based on others income as well....

Can my daughter's father come in her life after being absent for 9 years?

Possibly. You need to lawyer up and find out whats really going on. Especially if he is paying child support.

What is my next best move? (Child support violation, abandonment, no legally defined custody)

You might want to see what happens next time you are in court before you proceed.