My husband is financially abusive. We have three kids, and I want to leave. Where should I start first? Should I go to DSS?

You need to speak to an attorney who can help you. I suggest you contact the Bar Association in your areas for references.

Marrying a foreigner the 2nd time?

You need to speak to an immigration attorney asap.

What can I do about ex mom in law harrasment?

Just ignore her, she is just trying to rile you up.

What happens in NJ if a mother abandons a baby at the hospital immediately after birth &the father is present at the hospital ?

As counsel said, he needs to petition the Court asap, and seek counsel.

Can the NCP prevent custodial parent from taking child on vacation to puerto rico?

If there is no court order, then its hard to prevent certain things from taking place. At the same time you might be opening up a can of worms if...

Court order states to notify each other "In Writing". What is the definition of in writing?

Its the smell test, if it smells like "in writing", then it is. Otherwise its not. Common sense should prevail.

Your attorney should have various options on how to proceed.

There is no form. You can file a motion to disqualify or a motion to have him removed. I strongly suggest you retain counsel to help you in this.

I want to move to buffalo, N.Y i currently live in NJ 8 hours away) with my kids do i need a courts permission?

If you want to relocate your children you will either need his permission, or will need a Court order to relocate without reprecussions. I strongly...

What can you do when spouse clean out your joint account and take the refund of rental agreement

You need to speak with your attorney to attempt to seek return or a credit for the funds which your spouse has taken.