How do I enforce a divorce decree from 20 years ago when both parties are deceased that involved a quit claim deed not filed?

You might have to hire a PI or an attorney to try to track down all of the relevant information.

How do I get a letter of administration for my brother who lived in Germany when he died?

No. You might want to call the German Consulate in Manhattan and see if they can be of any help.

How can I or my parents get custody of my niece and nephew if my sister lives with us ?

Your parents need to file a petition in Court for custody. I strongly suggest that they speak to an attorney before doing it, to make sure its done...

I filed for sole custody of my child a temporary arrangement was made court date is pending father not served can I dismiss?

You can withdraw the petition, and you can refile at any time without prejudice.

My child's father wants to give up his parental rights to avoid child support

It doesn't work that way. Do not waive any of the arrears unless you speak with an attorney, because once you waive them, they are waived forever....

Can my husband kick me and our children out of my in-laws' home?

I strongly suggest that you speak to your divorce attorney and act accordingly. During the process of the divorce your spouse cannot evict you from...

How can I enforce visitations?

I strongly suggest that you retain counsel so you can devise a strategy to a) enforce your visitation, b) find a way to get more visitation and...

Will the courts see my concerns and award my full custidy?

Possibly, but there is the complete picture that they will look at, and I am sure that your ex will paint a totally different picture. Please speak...

18. However the older the child the more likely that their views will be listened to.

Ex husband is threatening to file for emergency custody because I texted his girlfriend

I don't think that he has grounds for anything. Just be careful that this does not impact the children in a negative way. It sounds like he is...