What to do if I have to temporarily leave my house due to an illness and leave the kids with their dad?

I really believe that you need to speak to an attorney asap. I really wish you had not moved out of the home before any of this. You really should...

Divorce without my spouse?

You need to serve him with divorce papers, and then you need to proceed accordingly. I suggest you retain counsel to help you through the process.

Can I file for a divorce in NYC if I was married in conn.?

As long as you are living in NYS for the proper amount of time you can file.

Am I entitled to money left by my legal domestic partner?

Someone needs to review your partner's will.

What can I do to get more time and show the court, in order to make myself financially stable to leave a foreclosed house?

Counsel is giving you good advice. Try to work something out with them.

I was told that while my husband was inconcerated he filed for divorce from me and married someone else i got no paperwork and i

You need to check the County Clerks office in the county in which you got the divorce in, or check ecourts.

How long is it going to take for my divorce

Unfortunatly, nobody can give you a time frame because there are only 2 ways to conclude a divorce, by settlement or trial.

Can I sue CPS for deprivation of rights ?

You can try, but will not be successful.

I strongly suggest you retain an attorney to make sure that the papers are properly processed in the court.

My ex girlfriend ran with our son from NY to SC when he was 16 months old.

You need an attorney asap to help you.