Is it an ethics violation for a judge to give out bus. cards for a guardian at litem, or for any professional, for that matter?

I really suggest you retain counsel so you can have a better chance of having your views heard. Doing it yourself doesn't always work so well.

Can a 16 year old move in with a 20 year old

You can't. She need to be 18 before she can go where she wants.

How do I get a divorce if my husband is in prison and I don't know his social security number?

You can put an affidavit in with the Court.

It will be subject to modification. It always it. I would listen to your attorney.

How to squatter rights work in New York City?

Just that you need to be evicted legally.

IIf I resign as trustee am I still a beneficiary ?

You can resign. You don't have to do it.

Can I relocate with my daughter to a different borough if I can not afford pricey Manhattan? my ex and I live separately and he

I strongly suggest you to speak to counsel to discuss your case. It sounds like you are in middle of never ending litigation. As a result...

Is there any way to get a petition for child custody pushed back?

I suggest he retain counsel, and have the counsel ask for an adjournment.

How do I go about starting the process of having my kids father seeing his child when he is a registered sex offender?

Most people would advise you not to. You may wish to speak to counsel.

Look on e courts, and you should be able to find anything if the case was processed at all.