Sounds like you are divorced. I suggest you contact the county clerks office to see if they have a copy of your papers to pick up yet.

How can my sister in Jamaica divorce her husband in Canada?

If neither of them live in NY, or have residency here, they cannot get divorced here.

Do I need to ask permission to take an audio recording of a conversation I am a part of??

NJ and NY are one party consent states.

My Aunt's husband abandoned her and went back to his country, can a divorce happen?

Yes. There are ways to make this happen. She needs to talk to an attorney to discuss her options. The easiest way and cheapest way would be to find...

As counsel said, it needs to be executed as if it was a will. Just a notarized statement is not a valid codacil under the laws of the state of NY.

You can do what you wish. You are free to live your own life.

If I am served a subpoena to testify in family court for or against a friend what is the penalty if I don’t show?

You risk being held in contempt. The other party will have to file a motion to compell you to testify and the Judge will have to approve it.

Neither. He needs to be properly served. You really need an attorney to do this properly.

I had recently been in a situation renting a room for split rate on a apartment after getting in the apart ?

Unless you have a lease, you will have a difficult time proving damages.

Help with divorce situation in Bergen N.J

As counsel is saying, you need to hire counsel to fix your case and get it all right. This is not insurmountable.