I live in NY and I would like to get a divorce from my wife who resides in Ecuador? Is it possible to file here in the states?

You should speak with an attorney in person to discuss whether NY has jurisdiction over your case.

Penalty for giving false statements to police??? Can I face jail time??

You may have to go with your attorney and explain that you were not in the proper state of mind when you made the accusation. You run the risk of...

I was advised by an attorney previously, by law they can only go back 3 years once the child is 18. Is this true?

I am not sure as to what you are referring to.

You can petition the court and ask for an upward modification.

It sounds like you only had a 3 year marriage now. I do not know how much you may be entitled to, but if any it would be for a short duration.

After serving my spouse, she is still refusing to sign but has not taken me to court, what can are my options now?

You need to speak with your attorneys and figure out a way to get you guys to settle.

Has?

You need to research the law to see how it applies to your case.

Filing an appeal help?

You might want to try legal aid, or find the money for an attorney. These cases are hard to prevail with an attorney and impossible to succeed when...

Do I have any rights, based on a verbal agreement, after I signed quit claim?

As counsel said, you still have an equitable share to the property as per the divorce.

What happens when parties have previous courts orders for child support/custody & visitation but do not agree in a divorce in NY

I would try legal aid or a law school and see if someone can help your friend.