MMy husband's exwife remarried for sure and is concealing it to collect alimony. She posted about it on Facebook then removed it

As counsel said you need to file a motion to terminate alimony.

How can I get custody of my 2 yr old cousin?

You need to file a petition for custody. However, it will be difficult since you may not have standing. Perhaps you can get guardianship.

What age can a child of a divorce legally state what living arrangement they want?

18. That is when the child is an adult. Until then they take into account the wishes of the child when making the best interest determination....

Can i fight for sole custody for my child as a recoverying alcoholic. Regaining her back

Its going to be a tough slog going from one hour a week to sole legal custody. I strongly suggest you retain counsel. and discuss your expectations...

Can I contest my husbands divorce papers even though we have legal separation agreement?

If you waived you ability to file an answer, and waived all notice and service of all papers, and then he filed the papers, then unless you can...

Do I have to take a dna test for my child if I was separated during marriage

Its up to the court. Your husband is the presumed father of the child. He may then deny paternity, and proceed accordingly in court and a DNA test...

Can child care be more than child support payments a month?

It is possible. However, generally magistrates will not order child support plus add ons to be more than your take home income. You may wish to...

Can i record people in public places in New York

Its unclear who these people are. I don't think its a great idea to just randomly film people with no purpose even if it doesn't violate the law.

Does an investment within the home have consideration during a buy out of a divorce?

Its taken into consideration, but it is normally factored into the purchase/sale price of the property.

As counsel said, you have 3 years for the SOL. I strongly suggest that you consult with counsel. It is a very high burden to allege legal malpractice.