Can a mother file for custody in new york if the 2 year old child spends most of his time with the father in new jersey?

You need to speak with an attorney who practices in Both NY and in NJ for a clear response.

Currently in NY mediation. But I move to NJ next month. Nothing has been filed yet. Can we still file in Ny if spouse in Ny?

You need to speak with counsel to decide what you want or need to do. Its not so simple that you can't file in NJ.

Do I have to go to family court in NYC if an ex filed for a temporary order of protection ?

You always need to show. Whats to stop him from lying and saying that you were served properly.

Can I file a alienation of affection suit in nyc?

NYS does not have as a proper cause of action. I do suggest retaining counsel and speaking to them asap.

How many days do I have to answer a divorce summons if I get served outside the state of New York ?

30 from the day you were served. Please hire counsel to represent you. Please do not ignore the complaint even if you feel that you were not...

Do I have to provide my financial situation to my husband who is in a custody battle for sole custody of his daughter ?

I am not a marriage counselor, but it seems that you need to have a long and open conversation with your spouse about what is going on. You may...

No. Poor people are allowed to have custody of their kids. However each person needs their own bed.

How can i cancel my marriage ?

Unfortunately, "not being in love" is not a grounds for annulment. You need to start a divorce proceeding, and speak with counsel to expedite it.

Can I get things removed from discovery?

You need to speak with your attorney about getting a protective order.

Husband has abused me and my one-year-old son. I want to file divorce but afraid of losing my child custody. Please help?

You really need to speak to an attorney asap. You need help now.