My husband is non custodial parent of two kids.They dont live with us.Do we need count them as dependents

No. They don't live with you. They are not dependents even thought they are his kids.

No its not. They are totally different. You really need to speak to an attorney asap to discuss your matter and what your next steps should be. If...

Help?

Speak to your attorney for guidance.

How do I get my ACS case closed

You might wish to speak to an attorney to try to figure out how you can disentangle yourself from this situation.

Can I go to jail for this? Can this be consider neglect? Can they call CPS on me? Can my child be taken away from me for this?

If you do not show up they will cut your benefits.

How can my sister-in-law protect herself from her husband after he has been evicted from the family home?

Her divorce attorney should be able to help her develope a strategy to deal with this, since her attorney knows this case better than anyone else.

What might happen given my current situation below? I’m nervous it might not be favorable since I’m on a home equity line.

Please speak to those attorneys who you are consulting with to get a better picture of your situation. They will be able to educate you.

Marital debt? Is a child’s college loans considered marital debt?

Very possibly. I strongly suggest you speak with your attorney or retain counsel if you do not have done so yet.

Can I leave my husband and take my kids

First, if you feel that anyone's life is in real danger, you have an obligation to your children to keep them safe. That being said, in any...

How can I make my ex husband spit settlement We got from an accident in which we filed jointly at the time we were marry ?

You need to speak to your attorney and find out how your husband received money without you granting authorization.