What legal way do I have to keep my vacation itinerary hidden from my ex due to safety reasons?

You may need to inform your ex your travel outside of the country. I suggest you speak with an attorney to discuss your options. If you fear for...

If the mother takes the child’s father to court and the baby has 6 months would the mother get more time then the father ??

I'm not sure what your question is. If you go to court, make sure you have an attorney.

How can I get my mail back from my exes grandmothers house

You need to change where your mail is going. Its going to be hard to prove that they have your mail if they say they don't have it.

Yes, but NJ does not have jurisdiction over your child. You also should check with an attorney in India to find out about the validity of the...

Consent to change attorney?

It could be that she signed that document and is now representing herself pro se.

Then the meeting will proceed without the Respondent. I strongly suggest you appear with counsel.

Do i have to take a drug test in a custody case without having a lawyer first?

If the court orders it you will need to follow it. I strongly suggest you retain counsel.

Can my ex leave the state with my son without telling me?

You have the right to know where the children will be. Please speak to an attorney if you cannot resolve it.

What happens if I show up to court and was not able to serve the petition for visitation request to come to family court?

You can request an extension, if they will not give it, you will need to come to court, and request more time when you are in court.

What can I do?

You need someone to review your agreement to see what exactly what you are entitled to.