I understand there is little to do now but I want my daughter to see what was done was wrong?The only way is to sue.

You need to seek counsel of an attorney to review your agreement so you can plan on your next steps.

I am a very concerned father an friend to my kids, why does full custody matter in this situation?

Your friend needs to speak to an attorney. If you see a child in actual harms way you should take appropriate action.

Finalizing Divorce

Unless something out of the ordinary occurs you will not have to appear in Court. The Judge will sign the Judgement, and the other party will have...

What if the Judge received my Order to Show Cause, said he'd hear it, but gave no date for the hearing or signed order?

I would suggest you speak with your attorney to discuss this. If you don't have one, respectfully follow up with the clerk of the part on Monday.

I am filing for separation, can I still live in the same house for the childs sake?

Yes, even though there is no real thing as seperation.

Can I relocate to a different state with the child or do I need a permission from the ex?

You may need a Court Order. I suggest you speak to an attorney, who might have some creative solutions for you.

You have a right to know where the kids are sleeping.

It seems that it has been assigned a Judge/Referee to review the case.

I'm a US citizen currently residing in New York , There's a Child support order in place threw Washington state which is current

You need to speak to counsel in Washington State to bring an action there.

Can my husband take my sons away?

Do not leave your place of residence before scheduling an in person consult with an attorney. You leaving the residence may be percieved as...