Why did my ex's mom and sister receive parenting time/visitation rights court papers?

You need to talk to your attorney to find out why. If you don't have one, you need to get one asap!

How can i get back my house in my name after i transferred it into my x-girlfriends name?

Well you tried hiding money from your spouse, and now it came back to bite you. This is what happens when people deed properties to people. You...

Can my divorced husband of nearly 2 years challenge my first divorce to another man 20 years ago, both divorces granted in NYS?

I strongly suggest that you please speak to an attorney who can review your case and previous divorce. Something does not add up here, and there is...

i need to file a divorce .

Unless you are willing to wait, you will need to file in PA, and retain PA counsel.

My divorce and my Maintenance is over. When We signed papers in 2014 my lawyer stated that I would have my house without lien?

You need to speak to your attorney to fix this.

The longer that you have been seperated and self supporting the harder it will be to collect any alimony.

Online, my divorce says it was sent to a judge on 9/19/18. How long does it take to show up online as signed?

It can take a few months. Queens County is notoriously slow.

Can i file a default divorce? The divorce paper was serve for 5 yrs now?

If it hasn't been served in 5 years, it was probably dismissed.

What can I do to modify/terminate order of protection against my husband?

If you wish to do what you are looking to do, you need to speak to the DA's office.

Where to go from here?

He needs to talk to his attorney asap.