Is this third party contact?

If you think it is 3rd party contact, don't do it.

Its free. She needs to show up with her benifits card to the pro-se office and follow their instructions.

Can ?

There is much that is missing to this question. An order to show cause is a motion. A petition is a petition. Please speak to an attorney.

As counsel said, its out of your hands. You would have to contact the DA's office and try to convince them to drop the charged. Good luck with that.

You should contact the matrimonial clerks office for the county in which you have submitted your divorce. You might have a scheduled hearing....

My divorse papers were submitted to the NYC judge for ruling over two years ago.

As your attorney in writing for what you are waiting for and proof that the papers were submitted. Two years seems like a long time.

Court date November 27 2018

It seems that you are having your date for an uncontested or default divorce. You will need to bring your marriage certificate along with a...

What should I expect?

I would strongly suggest you speak with your attorney and follow counsel's advice. If you don't have one, please get one as soon as possible.

We got married in Nevis and live in New york. My wife wants a divorce. How do I do that if we were not married in the states?

You don't need to get married in NYS to get divorced here. As long as you or your spouse has lived in NYS to satisfy the residency requirement, a...

Will a judge allow private counseling hired by my ex in a removal case?

I strongly suggest that you speak to your attorney to discuss this. If you don't have one, you really need one.