I have a signed stipulation of divorce since July 9 and my wife’s lawyer have not yet filed the papers what can I do?

As counsel said, this is why you need an attorney to help matters get done.

Can i stop my ex from harassing me by filing contempt orders against me and demanding counsel fees?

You may have a few options. I strongly suggest that you schedule an in person consult with an attorney to discuss this matter. You need to leverage...

Is she in contempt ? Can I claim child abandonment since it's been well over 4 years that I have had contact with him.

If the child is 19 you can contact your child on your own. As counsel said, you may want to investigate if the child is emancipated.

Does NCP have to file a cross motion or just ask to speak to judge instead of hearing officer day of court?

I think with the complications of your case, it seems that you need to speak with an attorney to review this entire case to see what you need to do...

As counsel says, it seems that you need to have your Order/Agreement reviewed by an attorney and you, and then you guys can see where to go forward...

Can a NY State divorce attorney help me??

I suggest that you schedule a consult with an attorney to review your agreement, and then the both of you can see where to go from there.

IIs it illegal for a father to sleep with his 4 yr old during visitation

Its not illegal but its not reccomended. However, if the child decides in the middle of the night to leave their bed and join the parent, this is...

Am i able to move out of state with my son?

If you do not get his permission or a court order you run the risk that if you relocate with your child, your ex will file a motion to have the...

At this point unless you have a reason why you need an annulment, you are probably better off getting an uncontested divorce now. Please speak to...

Can I hire a lawyer who can represent me on the child custody issue only ?

If all the other issues are settled, then yes. However, the Judges in the Matrimonial Part in New York County will not let your attorney to have a...