My spouse call me out the blue and wants to get divorced ASAP should ..I be worried it’s been 8 yrs separated??

We don't know either. You may wish to speak to an attorney to discuss your options. If you get served with paperwork please speak to an attorney...

How soon can I remarry after divorce in NY?

The day after the divorced is entered by the County Clerks Office.

How difficult would it be for me to gain custody of my children?

I strongly suggest that you sit down with your attorney and discuss this at length and review your current order. You should then formulate a...

I haven't been served court petition for violating of visitation

You should still show up and show up with an attorney. At the court appearance you can say you weren't served properly, if you don't show you run...

Is there a way to receive child support without the system although I have an order or protection against the father

If there is an OOP against him contacting you, how is he to speak with you about paying support.

Its hard to move a case mid trial or mid case. Please speak with your attorney to discuss.

I am a woman who paid everything during our marriage. My soon to be ex never worked in his entire life.

It really depends on the circumstances. He is entitled to his equitable share. You need to speak to an attorney in person for a consult to discuss...

check on e courts or the clerks minutes

What can I do with my child's father making false accusations?

You really need to speak with your attorney. It sounds like if you wanted to add a cause of action you would need to amend your complaint and...

Will my wife’s easily proven lie to the forensic psych have an effect on his report and the judge’s view of our divorce?

You really should speak with your attorney to discuss this matter. thanks, ira