I am in midst of a child support/child custody case. I live with my girlfriend and her three children and she pays for the rent

As Ms. Brown said, agree to allow the imputation. Only your income counts for the support of your children.

What is the time frame allotted to equitable distribution of assets when real estate is involved in an uncontested divorce?

Unless these matters can be decided by the parties, this determination would have to be made by the court.

Petition on children’s and parent’s protection.

This is not a question. Moreover, this is not something that can be filed as a "petition" to family court. This would involve a lawsuit against the...

Does he need to be formally served?

If he files a defendant's affidavit which states that he was served, you will be fine.

This is not the normal process. If you want to proceed in an uncontested manner, you need to sign a Defendant's affidavit, which states that you...

When is the best time to apply for child support?

Apply immediately. These applications are only retroactive to the day that you file your petition.

If I leave my house is that consider abandment? and will have to pay child support

The non custodial parent will have to pay child support to the custodial parent.

The father and I have joint custody,physical placement with me.court ordered he have liberal visitations.

If visitation is liberal then it can be worked out whichever way the two of you agree. However, having your bf there may not be the best idea if it...

How do I enforce child support and my child's health insurance if my ex-spouse is now unemployed out of state?

Start an action for enforcement in NY immediately. You should also get an attorney to assist you.

Questions about non-custodial parent's rights when child lives in a different state?

He has little chance of success. So long as the child has resided in NY for more than 6 months, then any issues of custody and visitation would be...