Can charges be pressed against someone for filing false reports with ACS?

You can try to sue him for abuse of process. You can also speak to the local DA.

Final Court Custody of my Grandson

The custody order stands until it is changed. You will be summoned to appear in court and you should do that. You will be best served by hiring an...

How do I keep an illegitimate child, and it's mother, from inheriting my family's possessions?

You have no say. It is up to your father how he wants to distribute his estate and I am sure he has a will which shall determine this.

Will I have to go back to court after the arraignment? and what is the likely outcome of the arraignment?

As my colleagues stated, it is unlikely that the matter will end at the arraignment.

Can my ex prevent me from bringing my child to my apt? Child is 2 yrs old

So long as there are no restrictions regarding your order of visitation, your ex has no say.

What is the child custody law in New York regarding custody of the child

Until paternity is established, the father has no rights and no responsibilities. Either parent can go to court in order to establish paternity....

Selected as the best answer

As my colleague stated, you have to refuse consent to be heard by the JHO/Referee or you can withdraw your consent.

How t switch residency to NYC as quickly as possible.

Simply moving to NYC will allow you to change your "venue" to NYC. Residency is more a matter of what state you reside in, rather than which city...

What form should I use to petition New York State Family Court to compel ex-spouse to sign IRS Form 8332?

You need to file a petition or a motion to enforce your divorce judgment.

Do I need a lawyer to divorce

There is no way to answer that question without more information. You should schedule a consultation with an attorney to discuss the matter.