Didn't have SSN so don't have a lot of typical proof of living together. Have SMS transcripts, online shopping receipts. works?

This is an immigration question and I have labeled it as such.

Will my husbands arrears come back on me?

You income is exempt. Only his income is subject to child support for his children. However, if the two of you have joint bank accounts, that could...

Is it customary to send the Judge a simple, "Thank you for your time" card after a 2 day trail?

While your intentions seem to be noble, do not write to the judge. He was doing his job. Nothing more. Nothing less.

Estranged husband arrested last night for criminal 3rd degree assault against me, OP ordered, visitation order question.

As my colleague stated, ask the police for help.

Would i have to pay child support still for a certain child?

If you signed the acknowledgment of paternity for the child in question, you will have a very hard time overturning paternity. You will need to...

As my colleague stated, you need to file a petition with the NJ court. As neither of you resides in NY anymore, it should be granted without much...

Moving

If there is no restriction on your move in your custody order, you can move so long as it is still in NYS. However, the father may still object and...

Divorce/Custody. I am in middle of a child custody suit. If there is substantiated neglect against me by ACS isn't it illegal

There is no restriction on sharing information regarding a neglect finding.

How do I close my child support case?

As my colleagues stated, you need to file a petition in family court and request that your child support case and the arrears be terminated.

Married in NY 2 and a half years ago. Now due with our first baby any day soon. I maintain my California resisency.

If you want to be in California with the child, then you should move there before the child is born. In a recent case here in NY a mother who moved...