You need to speak to an attorney regarding fixing this problem. Welfare fraud does carry penalties. Contact the NY Dept. of Investigations....

Can you have a permanent order of protection stay away that was ordered by criminal court dropped or modified?

Usually not upon your application. You may want to speak to the other person's attorney.

It is not up to you to stop it as the DA now has that authority. You should speak to the father's attorney to discuss is you can help him.

How would I set up child support payments thru Child Support Collection Unit?

You would need to go to the local family court and they would be able to help you.

Is it right that I pay child support for my 20 yr old son

The law requires support until age 21. However, under certain circumstances, that can be avoided, such as when a child refuses to follow the...

If my wife wants a divorce do i have to move

He does not have to move at this time. He may be entitled to alimony but that is something you should speak about with the attorney you are looking...

Do you think a judge would say this is unreasonable?

Your request is very reasonable. If the father is resisting speak to a local attorney who can give you a better idea of what you should do in this...

Do you think a judge would say this is unreasonable?

Your request is eminently reasonable.

My car was seized for child support taxes and I was never informed.

You need to hire an attorney to help you with the child support issue. You should also contact Gieco regarding the automobile.

I was just denied an modification of my support order

You should find an attorney to file written objections to the denial by the support magistrate. The law changed in 2010 in that if an order is 3...