Without an order either or both parents can take the child to a therapist.

As my colleague stated, consult with an attorney to discuss your options before you do anything that may jeopardize any custody litigation that you...

As my colleague stated, you need to hire an attorney and file for divorce. Serving her will be difficult, but it is not impossible. I have a very...

Yes you can. You need to know where he lives so you can serve him. When that happens and he appears he will need to disclose this information. I...

Since the child is not legally yours, he has no right to support from you.

You should not be required to communicate with the father through any third party. You can let her know that you will not communicate through her...

There is no way to tell whether CPS will act against you in this situation, however, there is no reason for you not to file for an order of...

There is nothing that stops the court from issuing such an order from the perspective of the law however, you would have to demonstrate that the...

While NY is not a 50/50 state (there is no such thing) you need to hire counsel immediately in order to deal with this issue.

The situation that you describe is one where you can and should seek different counsel.