How can I express myself to the judge that i am voluntarily giving up my parental rights to my other daughter?

You cannot waive your parental responsibilities, however, if ACS starts a Termination of Parental Rights proceeding against you, then you can agree...

IS MY WIFE ENTITLED TO ANY OF MY S.S. BECAUSE MIND IS LARGER THAN HERS ...CAN SHE CLAIM MAINTENACE BECAUSE OF THIS DIFFERENT...

It seems that you are in the process of divorcing and the two of you can agree to anything in the context of a settlement.

My ex has final decision making and just informed me that our daughter now has a tutor for Italian. Is it standard

As my colleagues have stated, the answer to your question is in the stipulation that you entered into with your ex when you divorced. If it does...

How can I subpoena information?

You cannot subpoena the information. This is one of the many reasons that you need an attorney for this matter.

Who files the note of satisfaction

You are referring to a Notice of Entry or a Notice of Settlement and either party can file it.

Net worth statement.

As my colleagues have stated, this is a question for your attorney and if you do not have one, then you need to get one. If his employer is...

Am I legally obligated to pay child support for my youngest daughter?

One cannot abrogate their financial responsibilities to their children.

Once you introduce ACS into your life, they are running the show and you are just an observer. Your best bet is to cooperate with them at this...

If i havent been formally served an order of protection and a cps worker claims there is one will i still be in violation?

Until you are served with the OOP it is not in effect.

Do I take her back to court?

Based upon the facts presented you have a case for a violation and possibly a custody modification. Try to send a letter regarding these matters...