Do judges always order 2/nights during the week & every other weekend?

There is nothing unusual about the schedule as it is currently set. What is the reason that you want to limit his contact?

Is it considered Kidnapping when a mother takes her kids to another state without written consent from the father?

Your "teachers" are wrong. Unless there is a court order regarding custody and relocation the custodial parent is allowed to do whatever they wish.

Can a judge rule my ex does not have to pay his prorata share for our sons college since my ex did not go to college?

That would be very unusual, but not outside the realm of possibility. Speak to an attorney in your area to discuss your entire case.

Can a judge rule that my ex mother in law be my childcare provider because she will do it for free?

While it is not in the court's power to choose a child care provider, the court can rule as to who has to pay an by what percentage. So the court...

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Can I handle my custody/divorce prosee?

Custody issues are some of the most difficult issues to handle. Trying custody without the aid of an attorney is akin to going to war without a...

So long as you had a ceremony performed by a pastor, you are considered married. Call the clerk to find out how to correct the mistake.

Will it help that I've tried to include my 2 year old sons father in recreational and religious things?

There is no way to answer this question without a full understanding of the situation. Schedule a consultation with a local family law attorney.

If non custodial parent show up to court , what happents Next ?

That depends on the judge. The judge could issue an order for needs based support, or it can have an inquest.

What are some steps I could take- I want to regain more set time and have primary custody

As my colleagues stated, you need to meet with a local attorney to develop a strategy. You need to document the amount of time that you have the...

Please help me my soon to be ex husband forged my income tax return last year i know its illegal could i loose my settlment

As my colleagues have stated, you need to find a lawyer to help you with this matter.