Can I use this in court to show my exes character and lack of respect for the law

This question has been asked and answered at least a few times already. .

Order of Protection preventing my ex from publishing false and damaging information on the web

The court does not have the power to impede someone's free speech rights. This would be prior restraint which would be utterly beyond the power of...

If you were divorced in NY, then you can sue him in NY. Having him served may be difficult. Speak to an attorney as this is neither simple nor cheap.

Enforcement of Order to pay for legal fees

You need to file a petition for willful contempt of the order of the court. If he is found in willful contempt, the court can order his...

Owe back child support

you need to file for a downward modification of support.

Getting divorced in NY (were married here). Need legal/financial advice (assets/debts). I am US resident, Canadian citizen.

As Mr. Browde stated you have no interest in either properties. As for your student loans, that requires a more thorough analysis. Hire an attorney...

I try so hard but what else can I do?

none of us can advise you with the fact that you have given us.you need to hire an attorney to help you.

My Wife has exclusive occupancy of an apartment that I inherited before marriage. We have 2 children ages 10-9

You were advised by your attorney to move out. That was dead wrong. Now you are stuck. I agree with Ms. Gherman that it is unlikely she will get...

20 yr old forced to leave home does she still get child support while attending college and living on her own in New york

You can file for child support for yourself from both of your parents in Family Court. An attorney would be very helpful.

Can I do anything?

The best thing you can do is hire an attorney.