I am in a lot of trouble and the public defender and law guardian given to me and my son are not helping me out.

There is not much any of us can do to help you with your financial issues. You definetely need your own attorney though.

That means that you need to file a separate suit to get the relief that you want.

Will they be arrested ?

If there is a warrant out then they may be arrested.

A couple is separated, not legally 'separated' or 'divorced'. Does that means its called a pro creed because before ruling?

There is no standard. it depends on the circumstances of the individual case. If there is no divorce or separation that means you are married....

My x wife wants me to pay for private school .i refuse to am I obligated to .

You may have a problem. Having established a status quo of private school, now you may be ordered to keep it up. You need to speak to an attorney...

Divorce

While you can make a motion for expediance, you need a good reason. Simply just saying "I want this done faster", is not enough.

Acs

The only way to answer such a question is to either be your attorney or to have a consultation with you.

If i only had a religious wedding am I bounce by ny marriage laws?

A religious ceremony counts as a wedding under NY law. However the whole "half of everything" thing is not accurate. Hire an attorney to help you...

Increasing child support

You need to start a modifiication petition. His income has to have increased by 15 percent or more.

Am I entitled to any of my husband's assets???????

Did he die with a will? That is the threshold question.