My mother is in a wheel chair and the father won't bring child over for visitation. Do I take my sister over on visitation?

There is no way to answer this question without knowing all of the facts surrounding the matter.

The NY order controls for the life of the order.

Can I get the divorce if I don't know where my partner is?

Yes you can. With the help of an attorney, you can file for alternate service or even a divorce by publication.

What can a petitioner do to drop an oder of protection against a defendant?

SO long as this is in Family Court, the mother can simply drop the matter.

Divorce counterclaims

You do not have to provide proof in the counterclaim. You may eventually.

My husband & I want to get divorced without paying thousands of dollars for an uncontested divorce. Where do we start? Court?

You can try to do it yourself by using the forms on the court's website, however, I would not recommend it. Those forms do not give you any real...

Escalating abuse with threats to my life if I call the police.. I just want to be safe, what are my options?

First you need to go to the police as soon as you can. You should not have to run away because someone is crazy. You also need to seek the aid of...

How can I obtain the marriage license of my spouse previous marriage? I need it to prove my marriage is invalid.

Marriage licenses are available at the Dept of Vital Records. Follow this link: https://www.health.ny.gov/vital_records/

Am I responsible to pick up and drop off my son wherever my ex is at my designated times?

Your attorney should be able to answer this question with certainty as they would have access to the order. Sight unseen, all I can say is that If...

Do I fill out a modification form or do I fill out a custody/visitation form?

You do not fill out forms in your situation. You hire an attorney have that attorney draft a strong and precise petition. Anything less is rank...