How can you find out what a retired NYC Police Officer contributed to his or her Deferred Compensation and Annuity Accounts?

You need to start divorce proceedings. Once you do that, he cannot hide the information from you. You should be seeking counsel to help you. You ...

I agree with both of my colleagues who answered this question. To add to it, while ACS does not have any actual authority without court orders,...

While I agree with my colleague on some of is points, there are things that can be done in a situation like this. You would need to hire an...

Do we need a traditional divorce and if so how do we go about this? It would be uncontested.

Yes you need to get a divorce. If you were legally married in Canada, NY recognizes that marriage.

What can i do?

The best advise I or anyone else here will be able to give you, considering your facts, is that you need to get a private attorney who will be able...

My ex is making unsafe parenting decisions. Is there anything I can do besides return to court?

As my colleague stated, you need to confirm this is happening because if you go to court without evidence, you will do more harm than good. You...

Is the mother responsible for half of that tax penalty because the legal agreement states we must split all medical expenses?

There is no automatic split of the tax penalty, However, you can sue the mother for her to split the cost based upon her actions (or lack of...

What options do i have? And if followed through...what could that mean for her, our child and myself?

There is no easy pat answer to such an open-ended question. You need to speak with an attorney as soon as possible to determine what your situation.

In the best interest of the child, what is the pros and cons of NOT going through the Support Collection Unit ?

You question makes absolutely no sense. Please rephrase or explain.

Does a 17 year old have the right to choose his or her own attorney?

No she does not, unless you are going to be paying for it, or she is going to be paying for it.