How can I get my divorce in NY before settling all other issues so that I can remarry?

Put plainly, you cannot. NY law does not allow that to happen. The fact that you asked this question indicates to me that you may not have an...

Can i still get a violation against ex husband if many years passed and children are grown?

You can go after the Husband. The problem that you will face is proving that the arrears are owed and that he has not paid. He will reply that he...

While there is no such law, the Family Court does take accusations of abuse into consideration.

Can I get child custody and take my kid back China after my divorce in USA?

There is no way to answer this question without a lot more information as custody cases are complex beasts and one of us would have to be your...

What steps do I need to take?

For custody, the child has to live in NY for 6 months for NY to have jurisdiction. For child support, you need to withdraw the GA case before you...

What do i need to bring to court to have my divorce vacated, i dont have a lawyer

What you need to bring is a lawyer. That is the best and I would say only way to succeed.

Can I apply for visitation for to see my step daughter

You cannot file, but your husband can and should.

I was told to forego a QDRO, is that wise?

None of us can answer any of these questions as well as your attorney. We do not know the other factors in your matter.

My colleague is correct. I would add, however, that you can also get married in city hall and then have your ceremony however, you choose.

Can I use audio as an exhibit to motion papers?

You can attach the media and then transcribe the audio.