What should I do if my husband left 2 month ago leaving me after 21 year of Mariage 2 chilgren going to college no financial ?

Contact an attorney immediately to discuss your divorce options.

What legal actions would I face?

If you do not pick up your son you can expect the father to bring this matter to the Family Court, either in NY or its analog in Oregon, and seek a...

What can I do to stop my child support violation petition from being dismissed.

Ask the court for an alternative form of service.

HHow long can the grandparents keep my daughter without my permission?

You can either go down there an get the child or insist the child is returned immediately. If that does not work, you need to go to family court...

How can I increase the child support that I receive from my ex husband?

You need to file an upward modification of support. However, you should hire an attorney to help you.

You cannot relocate at this time. If you do you will put the continued custody of your son at risk. Courts have flipped custody when parents do...

Service has to be personal, not left on a car, with a friend or anything else. The 20 days includes weekends. You really need an attorney for this....

Can my husband become a citizen with back child support?

That is an immigration question...........

Bankruptcy and child support?

Bankruptcy does not effect child support. If it did, everyone would file. You need to get a downward modifcation.

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