Consider hiring a local lawyer to advise you. It is not difficult to maintain you innocence. Your lawyer will do that for you.

Can the failure of the police to provide a police report in a dui cas be viewed as a brady violation in some cases?

It could be a Brady violation if there is exculpatory information. It could also be a Rosario violation. Either way, police reports should be...

Can I got to jail of my mom gave me permission to use her card but didn't ask about the stores I was ordering from

If you actually had permission then no crime was committed.

Can I see the judge before my adjourned date? An earlier court date ?

It's unlikely but you could engage a defense attorney to advance the case for you.

Is there anything i can do at this time to fight that conviction that the DA had me plead to while i was unrepresented legally

It is not possible that you pleaded guilty to a crime without an attorney. If that did happen the conviction would be overturned.

Are there lawyers that would check for me if I have a record

You can check yourself by contacting DCJS: http://www.criminaljustice.ny.gov/ojis/recordreview.htm.

What is my situation ?what should i do ? can anyone just and charges you for crimes you didn't commit?

Consider hiring a criminal defense attorney immediately to fight the case. A lawyer and/or investigator should get to work immediately.

Can I go to a lawyer to check my records

You don't need a lawyer to check your criminal history. See this DCJS link: http://www.criminaljustice.ny.gov/ojis/recordreview.htm.

Is this a winnable case I have, what crime was committed and do I have a good chance of getting my money back?

It's a prosecutable case. It depend if they catch the person and they can make restitution.

I came to the dui lawyers office and spoke to him about my xanax dwi

That's obnoxious, even for a lawyer. Consider finding a lawyer who doesn't talk down to you.