Statute of Limitations Issue in Criminal Case

It depends on the crime, some are 3 years, others 5 years and others even longer.

If I want to drop the OOP, how can I get in contact with my boyfriend's attorney so he/she can argue on my behalf?

You can try calling the prosecutor who is assigned to the case. But it is very difficult to have an order changed while a case is going on.

Only an attorney who knows all of the facts and information about you can give you that advice. If you are not happy with your current attorney you...

Is this legal?

It is somewhat odd but completely legal.

Do I go back to Manhattan to the sentencing judge?? My probation was transferred to Orange county where I reside.

Your question is not entirely clear. If you violated probation on a case in Manhattan then your VOP will be in the same place.

What would be my punishment

Good question, but more information is needed. The alleged amount taken? Prior arrests or convictions? Age? Discuss directly with an attorney, do...

What is a DUI?

If it was in New York, it's called Driving While Intoxicated (DWI). He should not have a problem with a half-century-old conviction.

Legal consent is 17, but I was told the parents can press charges even tho he consent and is of age

The age of consent in New York is 17. Below that age people are not capable of consenting. If something happens to somebody who is over 17 and they...

Should I be concerned? I have no criminal record and he has a wrap sheet a mile long, but does that matter? Am I in trouble?

Everything you wrote should be discussed with your lawyer. If you are unhappy with your current lawyer you could ways hire a private attorney.

If I accept this misdemeanor B plea, will my military disability/compensation be affected?

That is possible. Are you sure the offer isn't an ACD, which shouldn't affect your compensation?