Im being wrongly accused how do I prove my innocence and get my name cleared?

If the restraining order still stands and you haven’t been cleared of anything. You need to retain counsel and defend against charge

How can a cop send you a ticket in the mail when the car isn't in your name an he doesn't know you?

Obviously he knew you or he would not have been able to track you down and send you a ticket.

No that is not a threat. He’s not indicating that he would take any action to bring his hopes about.

Can I get a restraining order?

In order to get a temporary restraining order you need to show three things. First jurisdiction, that is a qualifying relationship such as marriage...

I would recommend you obtain your criminal case history. Otherwise it is just a guess.

There is an attorney general directive prohibiting ordinance downgrades from criminal charges. So that is not very likely. There are diversion...

Can i show positive if i get the braclette on today from drinking 6 ounces of wine last night?

I have no idea what you are referring to with a bracelette. Nor do you indicate what you have been charged with.

In need of representation

Attorneys are not permitted to solicit for business on this forum. But you should look into the attorney to respond to your question. My advice is...

Will my man get a lot more jail time ?

A third degree charge carries a sentence range of 3-5 years. Without knowing details of why he is in, his record and what he is charged with and...

Should I contest my ticket?

Impossible to say without knowing the cops version. Dismissals are not the norm in municipal court and you will likely be offered a deal.