My lawyer is asking me to assemble doctor.notes saying i am too ill to appear in court because of my condition.good advice??

Your doctor should be answering that.

I received notice from NJ courts stating that my mortgage Co, Citi had recently removed us from their OSC package

Loss mitigation means they will negotiate with you.

Moved from FL to MA with a few items to be delivered to home in NJ. NJ items not yet rec'd. its been >3mos. What to do?

Have an attorney contact and pressure the moving company.

Federal Rules of Civil Procedure mandate i can only serve Interrogatories on Named parties. How do i get information from others

Depose them.

I would recommend that you request a hearing with a DMV officer in Trenton to clear this up. You will not get your license back until it is taken...

Can A Person Sue For Being Improperly Banned From Casinos?

They can't do that. There must be something more your friend is not telling you.

Purchased car from private party with clear title and Carfax report. Now Carfax declared it as total loss vehicle.

Possibly, what representations do you have in writing from them?

Do I need an attorney to respond to a civil action summons?

If you do not appear, a judgment will be entered against you.

How do i press theft charges on my landlord

File a police complaint.

Small Claim Court | Can I claim compensation for hours wasted in trying to get a resolution before finally deciding to sue?

No, you can't.