If both parties leave a minor accident an on party reports it?

If they reported the accident they did what they were supposed to do. No exception exists for a "minor accident not to report it" If you did not...

Can I get a later court date if I need to set my finances and life in order before going to jail?

180 days in the minimum sentence if convicted, the maximum is 180 days most people consider themselves lucky if they get the 180 days. If your...

Would these be the reason why they were at my parents door or would it be something else?

Yes it could be about that case, I would hire a lawyer immediately. These cases can go on for years before an arrest is made. Again don't speak...

It is possible but the chances are highly unlikely and to do it would cost a lot of money.

You need to contact a VA lawyer to determine how your NJ ticket will effect you in VA.

Can one be charged with a DUI given the following?

Yes you could be charged but with a good lawyer it sounds like they would have a hard time convicting you. Of course we only know the information...

What kind of fines could i expect from a charge of 2C:35-10A(4)? Are there any ways to avoid loosing my license?

A good lawyer can generally find a reason for you to get a hardship exception and save your license. If you win your case you won't get any...

What wil happen to me after 26 years that i got a dui moved away and didn't do anything with the ticket

If you come back to NJ you may get the ticket dismissed if you get lucky and the cop is no longer around. But I once had a case where they...

Can I ask for leniency in traffic court for "distracted driving" by showing I was looking at the road?

You have not told us the violation number of your ticket, thus it is hard to give you advise. Needless to say if it has points a lawyer could help...

What will happen

Generally if the judge knows you, the results won't be pretty unless you have a lot of luck and a good lawyer.