Should I talk to a ethic professional before I file a inquire form?

Yes speak to someone first under the circumstances

you should be eligible for PTI If there is a problem get an attorney

How long until I can expungement?

The clock does not start running on the expungement until all restitution was paid so you have lost 6 months dp 5 years felony 10 years ...

Is this a conflict of interest? If so, how should I address my concerns?

I agree with the others here this could be a conflict of interest

Why am i being made to attend 16 week treatment on my first offense? Had attorney he never said anything in court.

Your lawyer got you a great deal avoiding the suspension ask him to explain this to you I agree with my colleagues

Is it ethical for a lawyer to use a former colleague as a mediator?

Yes as long as there is no conflict of interest between the 2 attorneys and he has been up front with you and told you re full disclosure

If I own and maintain a residence in a state other than New Jersey but happen to rent and work in New Jersey on a 2 yr assgnmt.

Yes. and your your car has to be insured if it is garaged here, notify your insurance company ...

Is it legal to fire an employee while he is awaiting surgery?

No under state and federal law, you can be dismissed if your are rendered unable to do your job, as long as they can document and/or prove a lack...

My lawyer will only see me at court, doesn't file motions. Hasn't returned answered emails and no auto reply Ignored? Fight?

Try to see your attorney You can replace him with a private attorney at your own expense As I always tell my clients go cheap on your...

I am wondering if a lawyer requesting money for a civil demand is valid?

Yes they can do it the question is is it to your benefit to pay it contact an attorney