The real issue / concern isn't whether it's "abandonment" in some legal sense (like giving grounds for a divorce), but whether you'd be setting up...

I want a divorce. Who is responsible for bills?

First, get on Experian.com and make sure you know what's in your name. Close out any joint accounts so at least no further damage can be...

How difficult is it to prove drug abuse for divorce grounds in NJ?

Unless you're looking to recap money that was spent (which is tough, but can be done) or plan to seek a religious annulment in the future, there's...

What should i expect from my divorce?

You have the right attitude in saying you "don't want to take everything", but on the other hand, it doesn't sound like your good will is being...

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Married a very long time, separated 2/3 of that. Knowing he would not agree to a peacefull settlement.What are my options.

Add: Marianne makes an excellent point you should look into. While alimony liability is capped as of separation, equitable distribution is...

My brother-in-law needs to file for divorce and bankruptcy but can't afford to do so. Who can help him in Somerset Co, NJ?

He can use a kit, but it's generally not advised if there are custody / abuse issues - http://www.njdivorcekit.com . That will get the process...

NJ probably wouldn't have jurisdiction to address support or equitable distribution if he's never lived here, you didn't marry here, and he has no...

Married a very long time, separated 2/3 of that. Knowing he would not agree to a peacefull settlement.What are my options.

I agree with both Janice and Marianne. Many people (even many attorneys) aren't aware that NJ does have a status that's almost identical to a...

Never married and signed BC 1993 with my doubts.Board of Social Security took me to court on behalf of mother and mother refused

You signed it in 1993? That's going to be your biggest hurdle. Also, your relationship (or lack thereof) may come into play on the issue, as...

My ex wants to move to tenn. with my son 15 yrs old

She isn't permitted to move without outside of NJ (this does NOT include vacations, day trips, etc) without having either your consent or a judge's...