Im pro se but on a subpoena duces tecum i know i how to fill it out but does a subpoena need to be notarized and

You must get approval/assistance from the court to issue an subpoena as a pro se litigant.

I've decided to hire a particular lawyer for doing research to see if I am likely to win litigation and I would like to take

The 'best" way is whatever you believe to be best for you and your case and to find an attorney who works best with you and is willing to work...

Can I file harassment charges under NJ Statute 2C:33-4?

Harassment might not be the strongest charge you have. You may also have an action for defamation of character. I suggest you consult with an...

I am expected to pay 4 months worth of rent to my ex-boyfriend in addition to his attorney's fees.

I agree with the prior comment. I think you will have a difficult time showing a court that he owes you the money when you co-signed a lease and...

Can I drop domestic violence criminal charges but still pursue an FRO? I have a TRO now.

You can as they are separate courts. However, please review what the issues are and why you would dismiss the charges if there are issues. You...

What supercedes what?

Did your ex advise you of the intended vacation in advance? If not, I would think they holiday controls.

It can't hurt to copy the attorney.

I am filing for divorce and can my spouse get money from me and I am on permanent disability?

Normally the social security benefit will be payable to the custodial parent. I suggest you consult with a family law attorney for further assistance.

How to deal with ex that impose me to change our established parenting time only to accomodate her social life

I suggest you either get her to agree to follow schedule or you can file motion in court to enforce the agreement.

I have a restraining order against me. Is it a violation of the order that I bad-mouthed my ex to my stepson?

It is unclear if the restraining order includes you ex or stepson. It may be considered a violation if you were communicating through a 3rd party.