My ex does not seem to understand agreement about college expenses, post high school child support and medical expenses

Given the issues you mentioned, you likely are faced with the situation of having to go to court to resolve the problems.

Who gets the kids on Thanksgiving if it's the mothers year for that holiday and it's also the fathers birthday?

But that is an interesting question. The best way to handle it is through discussion. If discussion fails, use the court holiday schedule or any...

Must a court ordered divorce decree specifically state a legal custody clause?

There should have been decrees and provisions about legal and physical custody it is not likely not to late for you to address it.

What happens if plaintiff doesn't show up to first court date

Judge is going to make sure that service on the other party was proper and if service was improper or is not been shown call the court will...

Head of Household

Yes you can assuming that you pay more than half of the dependence support.

Can I be denied to 37% duplicate cost credit toward child support for a child living away at college?

The child support for a child away at college is done recognizing that certain expenses are duplicated the colored such as food room and board. So...

The guidelines are designed to provide the custodial parent with child support. It could be economic reasons if the incomes are way different for...

When filing for divorce why do I need to fill out certification of insurance pursuant to R.5:4-2 (f)

It is necessary to fill out that form so that no insurance policies in effect 90 days before a complaint for divorce is filed have been canceled....

Is it within my rights to switch all communication with my ex to a different email account I use with a third party person?

Yes. As long as you have a viable email address that you will check, there is no prohibition on which account you use.

What protection do I have as a spouse who isn't on the apartment lease? I am legally married in NJ, and just filed for divorce.

No one can remove you from the place in which you live. In order to be safe, you should be seeking protections to the court system and make the...