Can I shorten my alimony?

You do have a case to modify if the facts have changed regarding incomes or other financial circumstances.

Will child support be taken out of my paychecks too?

No. But if you put money into an account that is levied and you could lose those funds.

Interstate child support case?

Hopefully you can prove each of your payments that you made weather by wage execution or direct payments.

Buying a house while still married

He will have no claims and you can put it in your soul name. There is no expectation that this is a marital property even if the formality of...

Can I terminate an anti lepis alimony agreement if I can prove alimony causing me extreme hardship?

Yes. Agreements are only in forcible to the extent they are fair. Even agreements for the anti-Lepis provisions can be modified if you can show...

Arrears do not die with the recipient. They are still owed.

Can I move 38 miles from my current home (same state different town) without permission from court?

If you were staying with in New Jersey, then the answer is yes. You should provide an updated address to the other parent.

The best you can do is offer your spouse the opportunity to engage marriage counseling on your own. The court system does not force such counseling.

What good is swearing to take the oath to tell the truth?

You should raise the issue directly with the judge or have your attorney do so.

Can the father get custody of the child if he’s not even allowed to have visitation rights with out it being supervised ?

He would have to file a motion in court to prove why he should go from having supervised time to full-time.