Can I change a custody order once the father had been given sole custody, but a couple years later we moved in together?

You can file a complaint for custody even while you were living together. If you can show that things of changed since the order was entered, you...

How can I file a motion for reimbursement of child support ?

You need to go to court to stop support.

When 2 sides are separated to be divorced in NJ, can one party opt to file federal taxes separately instead of joint returns?

You can file separate but you may be liable for the difference in the joint versus separate filing.

Alimony/Spousal support for short duration marriage in NJ

Yes you can delay but generally 13 month marriages don’t lead to alimony

There is no advance discovery in domestic violence matters. Although I smart lawyer will ask the other side for it.

My ex husband died recently, his name is on mortgage. Can I be forced to sell house I'm living in?

You need to refinance the mortgage and speak to an attorney to move the matter along.

Absolutely you can file that motion and you should. College expenses are considered to be a component of child support.

Marital Lifestyle -Post Judgment

You did outline changes in your circumstances. The merit of lifestyle is the benchmark for alimony and is what I judge will look at after the...

That is just a designation and does not mean that you received proper notice of the hearings.

If I owe child support what happens to the balance if I went to court and won residential custody of my daughter?

She may end up paying you child support depending on the incomes. But the existing obligation can only be retroactively modify back to the date of...