How long can my daughter receive child support? She is 21, will graduate college in May then work and go to grad school

There is some caseworker that lowers support for a child in graduate school but it is a very nuanced situation.

Can my ex husband contact our children with a final restraining order in place?

If there is no prohibition on him contacting them then yes he can however the question is do the kids want to hear from you.

You have a better chance of just getting information directly from the banks by way of your attorney subpoena.

Married under 4 years , what is the law for alimony?

There are no formulas for the length of Alimony. But in a short marriage. You really were not more than two years unless there are facts that would...

You do not answer the answer to counterclaim. That portion of the pleadings is done. You should now be focusing in on preparing your case...

In NJ does a grandparent have rights to visitation of their grandchild if the parents are keeping the grandchildren away

No unless the grandparents cared for the kids as parents.

How can I not split the house with my husband?

You are right about him not receiving any assets including any part of the house. You can also as part of the divorce raise those issues but you...

Do I need my ex's permission to claim my children on my taxes?

No, you do not need his permission. If the kids were primarily with you and you pay more than half their support and you can claim the kids.

You need a family lawyer to deal with those family issues and the fact that there may be money is owed.

Yes, there can be mutual restraining orders if the facts so warrant.