Just file a motion in court and move things along.

Yes you are and likely 50% of the pension.

Yes you can and should try it. It may not work.

It is unclear why you’d pay fees now

File a motion based upon him being a fact witness.

How do I have arrears attached to ex-spouses pension/retirement funds?

You need to be careful with seeking to attach monies from a pension because for the reward pies. You should first get a judgment and start...

No. There is a litigation privilege which allows things to be said in court that cannot be said outside of court.

No. He is not going to have overnights even parity time after such an absence. You should let him file something in court and then you can respond...

DIVORCED IN NJ 2005 Property settlement said both parents responsible. College bound daughter. he claims no money

You should at least speak to an attorney to see if his financial circumstances really are as bad as he says they are. In any event he has an...

Why i can't get custody of my grandson?

A grandparent is not on the same level as the biological or adoptive parents. You need a very strong case to even have visitation with the grand...