Likely a judge can obtain that information if the judge believes it to be relevant. There are privilege issues involved however.

Child Support

No, they are not. Disabled child will still be eligible for appropriate financial support.

Can my X cease alimony payments in the state of nj where divorce decree was signed in 2009

You or your attorney should be responding but it does not sound like alimony should terminate.

Better believe you should ask for a copy that statement. The attorney cannot set up such an account in your name.

Will ?

There is little chance that you will be paying alimony.

There should be mention made in your settlement agreement of wage execution. It is automatic for child support and less you opt out but not so for...

What do I do?

Yes. You are not to have any responsibilities for any assets he keeps.

What do I? And what can or will a judge do?

There is no way a judge would allow her to do so. You need to be able to communicate with the mother of your child or children. The court would’ve...

If you aren’t legally separated but moved out and filed for divorce already can having a new boyfriend affect my anything?

Yes if there is a payment of support or if he is paying your expenses or you’re paying his expenses.

I was in a accident February 2018. Put out of work unable to pay child support. Now my license is suspended can’t work now

They will no longer be suspending drivers licenses. You are now entitled to a free attorney if they do.