It is likely a judge will require joint legal custody but not force any parenting time with overnights. It seems like reconciliation therapy should...

A court will accept any valuation that is not a "net" (baseless) opinion, so someone would have to testify as to which value to use.

You can hire an attorney to act as your agent to avoid the process server. Other than that situation, your home address is the proper place of...

There can be enforcement if that pension is part of a divorce agreement/resolution.

You can seek to offset assets or have him pay the mortgage in lieu of alimony.

You should seek to claim your child(ren) two years in a row to even things up.

You can file in court for your ex husband to remove you from the loan and pay it off.

You can call court staff to find out which Honorable Judge has been assigned to deal with your matter.

The failure to provide the papers will not likely cause the dissolution of the restraints in the order. But you should immediately get those papers...

You can file a motion for a judge to bar your wife from acting in that way, or asking her to remove herself from the home.