What do I do if my moms still controlling

You can make your own decisions and choices. Do so wisely.

Do I have to allow my childrens cell phones in my home?

Unlikely but it depends on what is involved in any court orders.

Looking for New Lawyer

Yes you can ask and you should be allowed to do so

What if someone defaults on payments agreed on in separation agreement?

You can file enforcement of the problems and should do so quickly.

CS in NJ: My child will reach 19 years old by this November. When can child support be terminated based on the new NJ law?

It depends on Why you think emancipation is appropriate.

How can I get a court hearing for parenting time issues adjourned?

Explain your reasons for the adjournment and the reasons the other side won't consent to it.

My child's school is threatening to expel home if my wife does not give them her divorce decree.

It seems odd. You should find out why the school wants it.

How do you request a divorce default judgement without a hearing and what forms do you fill out

You need to file a motion for the entry of default. Then you'll get a hearing date.

What defines protected work product? Is it simply any compilation I do of raw data in preparing for my divorce case?

It's anything prepared by you at your attorneys request.

Well it's necessary to get into court to address the situation.